everything men know about women

"Famed psychologist Alan Lowell Francis has written a landmark book on men's understanding of the most complex of all creatures - women. Based on years of research and interviews with thousands of men from all walks of life, he presents the most complete picture ever revealed of men's knowledge of their opposite sex. Fiercely frank and brilliantly insightful, this work spells out everything men know about such topics as:

• making friends with women
• romancing women
• achieving emotional intimacy with women
• making commitments to women
• satisfying women in bed

image from maniacworld

hearties on holiday

No dates...
No stress...
No men...
Well, except for the polite men who graciously welcomed and greeted us like royalty :)

The hearties found time to escape to an undisclosed haven. It was amazing that despite little planning, everything fell into place and the hearties were all available those same days.

Good to know that we haven't lost our sense of spontaneity :)

Can't wait for our next stop, hearties.
Please grab your passports!


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quote of the day

how do you know he is a great guy?

he makes you feel good!
~ wondering heart

How's that for the quote of the day? It came to me like an epiphany. I thought it was brilliant (*grin... ego moment here). I ripped... err I was inspired by a quotation I spotted on a wall :)

It's true isn't it? A great guy would love you for who you are, flaws and all. He puts you at ease, motivates you and is always there for you. In short, he makes you feel good!

"I must bubble this," I thought to myself and snapped a photo of the original quotation (yes people, it's only right to cite your sources).


Then I realised that all around it were 'buaya' (crocodile) soft toys.

Suddenly it occurred to me that 'buayas' (playboys) too prey on unsuspecting girls by making them feel good, just to obtain what they want. With their own flirty ways and whispers of sweet nothings, the 'relationship' always come to nought, and the girls left feeling cheated.

Hmm not so great after all huh?

So it seems that my brilliant inspired quote has a loophole.

Damn!

thin lines

There is always a thin line that divides our emotions, our actions and intent. Most things aren't as clear cut as you'd like them to be. More often than not, we're in this limbo called the grey area.

Between friendship and love. Love and hate. Right and wrong.

I'm loving this series by Susan Anderson.









More here.

hearties were bowled over

by pins, no less. Not by men, obviously :)

The hearties united on 14 February 09 for a game of bowling that's been long overdue. Ok, I'm ignoring the fact that my fellow hearties were probably humoring me cos I was the one deprived - the last time I bowled was erm... when the old school QT bowling alley was still opened... heh, am not even gonna bother figuring how long that has been.

But boy... Pitting myself against 'seasoned bowlers' b.h. and p.h (who not only happened to have bowled recently but also ate breakfast, damn!), I was really trashed to the depths of the longkangs lah! Lol.

With no unnecessary male pressure around (hah!), b.h emerged victorious and pleased. Far behind, was p.h, who claimed to be an accidental bowler and even further behind was yours truly, the queen of the longkang.

Haha... it was so much fun! I would willingly be trashed another time or at least rise up to an improved momentum if not for the lack of time and well... hunger pangs.

So I'd say hearties, "again, again!"